Month: June 2022

  • 7 Personal Development Books to Help you Level up in 2022

    If you’ve been around the blog for a while you probably know that I am a personal development junkie. 

    I read a ton of personal development books, and take a lot of courses. I’m on a constant quest to get just a little better every day. The self-improvement books I have read range from the inspirational to the truly bizarre.

    Here are my top 7 tried and true books that have really helped me to level up.

    personal development books

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    Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear

    Let’s face it.  Building good habits can be challenging. This book digs into the way that habits are formed. It provides actionable tips on starting small to set yourself up for success when developing habits to help you achieve your goals.

    One of the things I really liked about this book is that it helped me to understand why I had sometimes been unsuccessful in setting habits in the past. Some of the information seemed obvious, but overall the book has really helped me break my habits into tiny pieces to actually stick to them.

    Trust the Universe: Powerful Methods for Positive Manifestations and Raising Your Vibration by Stephanie Keith

    This is a great book to read if you are interested in manifestation and the law of attraction but find yourself a bit skeptical. The book itself is beautiful, and it does a great job of balancing the spiritual aspects of manifestation along with the science behind it.

    There is a lot of great information, but it is broken down into short, easy-to-read chapters. I really love that there are so many practical tips that you can apply to your life right away.

    Get Rich Lucky Bitch!: Release Your Money Blocks and Live a First Class Life by Denise Duffield Thomas

    This was my first introduction to Denise Duffield Thomas’s work.  I read this book in a book club that I’m a part of, and I will be honest I was a little thrown off by the title. I’m so glad I gave it a chance though because this book is really good.

    The topic of money can sometimes be stressful, but the book is funny and easy to read. It really helped me to identify some of my money blocks and it has helped me to change the way I think about earning money. There are a lot of practical exercises to implement as well.

    Year of Yes: How to Dance it Out, Stand in the Sun and Be Your Own Person by Shonda Rhimes

    This book is so relatable. I mean, not the whole tv writer attending Hollywood parties bit. But the description of an introvert who struggles to say yes to opportunities and experiences part is definitely something I can relate to.

    As an introvert, I am constantly needing to make the conscious decision to push myself out of my comfort zone so I can truly live my life. This book is funny, and entertaining, and has really helped inspire me to say YES to more experiences in my own life. 

    Soundtracks: The Surprising Solution to Overthinking by Jon Acuff

    Overthinkers unite! This book is hilarious, relatable, and filled with action items to help you flip the script on the unhelpful stories you are telling yourself.

    I listened to this one on Audible and finished it in two days. This was another book club pick that I probably would not have otherwise chosen. I”m seriously considering giving this as gifts to a bunch of people at holiday time this year. I liked it that much.

    Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo

    This is one of those books that was recommended to me by several different people, but for some reason, I resisted reading.  I’m glad I finally gave it a chance. 

    I found it really encouraging and inspiring. Marie is funny and real. There is a little bit of tough love and a lot of motivation. This book has really helped me to push through my excuses and look for creative solutions to obstacles.

    Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

    There’s a reason this book is a classic. I was hesitant to read it since it’s a much older book.  I assumed it wouldn’t have very much information that is useful for modern times.  I was wrong. There are a lot of great mindset lessons in this book.

    I will admit there are some parts of the book that are a bit wacky. But overall it’s a great book about having the power to change your circumstances and going after what you truly desire.

    Conclusion

    If you’re anything like me there are probably some books on this list you have already dismissed. I encourage you to keep an open mind though. Sometimes the message you really need to hear can come from an unexpected source. 

    I hope you found this list helpful. I’m always looking for book recommendations. Leave me a comment below and let me know what personal development book has changed your life.

  • 12 Disney World Tips for Introverts

    Are you dreaming of a magical Disney World vacation, but worried that it’s all going to be too much to handle? Do you get a little uncomfortable just thinking about all the lines and the crowds? If so, you’re not alone. Even the biggest of Disney fans can sometimes find themselves on “people overload”. 

    There’s no denying that Disney World can be overwhelming at times. But with a bit of planning, you can create a trip that brings the fun without the chaos.  Here are my top 12 Disney World tips for introverts.

    Know your triggers

     

    Every one of us is different, and you know yourself best.  Take some time to think about what you are most worried about for your Disney trip. Is it crowds in general? Is it waiting in long lines near a lot of people? Is it lots of noise? Or maybe you are someone who gets very stressed out about being on a strict itinerary. 

    Knowing your triggers is half the battle.  Once you have an idea of specifically what you want your vacation to look and feel like, and what you want to avoid, you can start to plan accordingly.

    Do your research

     

    If you’re anything like me then going blindly into unfamiliar territory can be really overwhelming. Doing a bit of research ahead of time can put your mind at ease. For help with planning your Disney vacation check out this post. Some things you may want to know ahead of time:

    • Important dates for planning your trip
      • When are payments due
      • When can you book your dining reservations
    • Where is your resort in relation to the parks
    • What are your transportation options
    • Operating hours and security and entry procedures for the parks 
    • A general layout of the parks, and where your top priority attractions are located

    If doing research is something that is overwhelming for you then try to find a way to make it fun.  There are some really entertaining YouTube channels that can help you get familiar with the parks and the important details you need to know.  My favorites are All Ears.net- YouTube and DFB Guide- YouTube.

    Visit during slower times of the year if possible

     

    If you are an introvert, I think it’s pretty safe to assume you would rather plan your trip for a time with lower crowds. The days of having an off-season at Disney World are pretty much over, but that doesn’t mean you can plan to visit during a LESS busy time.

    In general, it’s best to avoid holiday weeks and school vacations. You can check out a yearly crowd calendar to plan your perfect time here: WDW Prep School Crowd Calendar

    Choose your resort wisely

     

    If you are staying on Disney property, choose a resort that is going to fit your needs best.  If you are someone who will dread taking the bus to the parks each day, choose a resort that is on the monorail, Skyliner route, or within walking distance to the parks to limit your bus rides.

     If you are someone who does not enjoy eating in a crowded cafeteria you may want to opt for a Moderate or Deluxe resort that offers sit-down dining options. If you know you are going to want to spend a lot of time relaxing at the resort, it may be worth choosing a Deluxe resort with more space and a more adult vibe. 

    If you are trying to decide whether or not to stay at a Disney resort, check out this post: Is Staying at a Disney Resort Really Better?

    Zig when others zag

     

    Going along with the crowd is not always the best plan.  This is particularly true when it comes to your Disney World vacation. In general, it’s best to have a different strategy than the majority of park-goers. 

    For example, the parks typically get busiest during the mid-day. Lines are long, it’s hot, and people are scrambling to find lunch. This is a key time of day to go in another direction.  Head to some of the attractions with lower wait times, or to an air-conditioned theater to see a show.

    Another option would be to go back to your resort for a nap or a swim. This will help to keep you out of the heaviest crowds, and you can get more done during the less busy hours of the day. 

    Set reasonable expectations

     

    Before your trip begins take some time to consider what your top priorities are. I like to break mine down by park. For each park, make a short list of your must-do attractions and activities.  Take an honest look at your list and evaluate whether you need to scale it back.

    This can help you strategize the best time of day to get your most important things done.  It can also help to keep you from getting overwhelmed and overstimulated when you get to the park for the day. 

    Sometimes the FOMO is real, and you feel like you need to do EVERYTHING. If you have a list in advance it can keep you calm and focused so you can enjoy the moment. 

    Use table service meals as a chance to relax

     

    Taking a break from the hustle of the parks can be a great way to keep calm and relaxed. 

    Table service meals tend to be less busy and crowded.  They typically offer more space and have a more relaxed pace than quick-service restaurants. One of my favorite ways to avoid the mid-day rush of the park is to book a table service meal to take a break.

    On a Magic Kingdom day, I recommend heading to one of the monorail resorts for lunch. Grand Floridian Cafe at Disney’s Grand Floridian Resort & Spa and Steakhouse 71 at Disney’s Contemporary are both great choices.  

    Eat during non-peak times

     

    Another key to beating the crowds is to plan your meals during off-peak times. In general, it’s best to avoid 12:00-1:30 for lunch and 6:00-7:00 for dinner. If you’re booking a table service meal it also may help you to snag a reservation at a hard-to-get dining spot.

    If you are dining at a quick service location I highly recommend using mobile ordering. As a bonus, it cuts down on your human interaction.

    Pro tip: Do NOT wait till you are hungry to place your mobile order.  Try to place your lunch order sometime in the morning and choose your preferred return time. That way you won’t run into an issue with their not being a quick enough return time.  Again, choosing an 11 am or 2-3 pm lunch is going to help you to avoid some of the heavier crowds. 

    Build breaks into your day

     

    Disney tips for taking a break

    Don’t fill your itinerary up so much that you don’t leave time for breaks. As magical and fun as Disney can be, it can also be exhausting. Some of my favorite times on a Disney vacation are sitting in a quiet area with a drink and a treat and people-watching. You can also take a break while enjoying some of the more relaxing attractions in the parks. Here are some great options:

    Magic Kingdom

    • Tom Sawyer Island
    •  Liberty Belle Riverboat
    • Hall of Presidents
    • People Mover

    EPCOT

    • Gardens of Canada Pavilion
    • United Kingdom Gardens
    • The Seas with Nemo and Friends
    • Living with the Land

    Hollywood Studios

    • Star Wars Launch Bay
    • Walt Disney Presents
    • Animation Gallery

    Animal Kingdom

    • Discovery Island Trails
    • Na’vi River Journey 

    Use rope drop and evenings for touring

     

    Some of the least busy, and most pleasant time in the parks is right at park opening (or preferably during early entry if you are an onsite guest) and at the end of the evening.  You are avoiding the throngs of the midday crowds, and you are able to tour the parks at a much more leisurely and relaxed pace.  

    This is an area where you need to know yourself.  If you are not an early riser, it may not be worth it to force yourself up early enough to be at the parks before they open. In that case, maybe the end of the night strategy will work best for you.  Sleep in, enjoy your resort and head to the parks later in the day.

    If you are not a night owl then it might make sense hit the parks in the early morning and be back to your resort to relax by dinner. If you are planning your first trip don’t plan on being in the parks from open to close each day. This is setting yourself up for a potentially miserable and exhausting day.  

    Utilize Genie + 

     

    If it’s in your budget I recommend purchasing Genie +. Yes, it’s annoying that you have to pay for something that used to be free. But as they say, time is money. For me, it is worth it to pay to skip the long lines at popular attractions. I’m able to get more things done and spare myself the anxiety of standing in the queues for hours with strangers. It just makes for a much more enjoyable experience in my opinion. 

    View fireworks from less crowded areas

     

    Fireworks at Disney World

    I absolutely love fireworks. And Disney fireworks are a cut above all the rest. But I hate standing shoulder to shoulder in a huge group of people to watch them. Even worse is the fighting my way through that whole crowd of people to exit the parks.

    Ok, maybe I’m being a bit dramatic. But really, I just want to be able to enjoy the fireworks without all that hassle. I love to find less crowded areas to view the show in peace. There are plenty of options for some amazing fireworks experiences. Here are a few:

    • Spring for a resort room with a theme park view 
    • Have a late dinner at a nearby resort and then watch the fireworks from there. My favorite place to watch the Magic Kingdom fireworks is from the beach of the Polynesian resort after dinner at the Kona Cafe
    • Transportation- Try to time it right to watch Harmonious from the Skyliner or Enchantment from the ferryboats. 
    • Take a Ferrytale Fireworks Cruise
    • Try a fireworks Dessert party inside Magic Kingdom
    • Book a fireworks dining package in EPCOT

     

    There are plenty of ways for introverts to reduce the stress of a Disney World vacation. It takes a bit of planning and preparation, but you can craft a vacation that feels like a dream come true. 

    I hope you enjoyed these tips. Leave me a comment and let me know which one was your favorite. 

  • 10 of the Best Disney Recipes to Make at Home

    One of the things I miss the most when I come home from a Disney World vacation is the food.  I’ve pulled together some of the best Disney recipes to make when I am feeling those Disney blues.  These are in no particular order because it’s impossible for me to choose a favorite. 

    Dole Whip

    Aloha Isle Dole Whip Disney World
    Photo credit: Disney Parks Blog

    When you think of Disney World snacks it’s hard not to think about Dole Whip.  There is nothing quite like a refreshing Dole Whip treat on a hot day in Magic Kingdom.  I also love to visit Pineapple Lanai when visiting the Polynesian Resort.  This copycat recipe comes pretty close when you are craving a pineapple treat. 

    Pineapple Dole Whip-Inside BruCrew Life

    Loaded Buffalo Chicken Tots

    loaded buffalo chicken tater tots -Friar's Nook
    Photo Credit: DisneyFoodBlog

    These loaded buffalo chicken tots from Friar’s Nook are one of my favorite snacks in Magic Kingdom.  They are also really easy to recreate at home.  I like to make these if we are having people over to watch football, or for family game night. They are always a big hit. If you’re not a fan of bleu cheese try using shredded cheddar instead. 

    Loaded Buffalo Chicken Tots (pixiedustsavings.com)

    The “Grey Stuff”

    The “Grey Stuff” from Be our Guest is another hit with the kids in our house.  It’s basically a cookies and cream flavored mousse.  This makes a great dessert for a Beauty and the Beast- themed movie night.  

    Be Our Guest Grey Stuff
    Photo Credit: DisneyFoodBlog

    “Beauty and the Beast” Grey Stuff (4theloveoffoodblog.com)

    Frozen Violet Lemonade

    One of the most popular treats at Epcot International Flower and Garden Festival is the Frozen Violet lemonade.  This serves as a fancy and refreshing drink for a summer celebration.

    frozen violet lemonade
    Photo credit: WDW Magazine

    Frozen Violet Lemonade — Kingdom Cuisine

    Magic Cookie Bars

    Magic Cookie Bar
    Photo Credit: DisneyFoodBlog

    This is a less well-known treat at Disney World, but they are so good. They are similar to a seven-layer bar or a kitchen sink bar with chocolate chips, butterscotch chips, and coconut. You can find them at Disney’s Wilderness Lodge

    Magic Cookie Bar (DisneyFoodBlog)

    Beignets

    Mickey Beignets
    Photo Credit: Disney Parks Blog

    There are few things more delicious than a Mickey Beignet from Port Orlean’s French Quarter. These special occasion treats would be perfect for a Princess and the Frog movie night at home. 

    Mickey Beignets – Disney Parks Blog

    Carrot Cake Cookie

    Carrot Cake Cookie
    Photo Credit: DisneyFoodBlog

    There are two things that I love about the Carrot Cake Cookie.  Number one is the cream cheese frosting.  The other is that my kids associate it with vegetables so I don’t have to share.  This was originally found at the old Writer’s Stop at Hollywood Studios.  Now you can usually find them at the Trolley Car Cafe. 

    Walt Disney World Carrot Cake Cookie Recipe – AllEars.Net

    Jack-Jack’s Num Num Cookies

    Jack Jack Num Num Cookies

    Another amazing Disney cookie on the list. If you are a fan of chocolate chip cookies you will love this one. It’s a deep-dish chocolate chip cookie with chunks of chocolate. They are extra delicious if you have them served warm. 

    Jack-Jack Num Num Cookies (Disney Parks) – Spoonful of Flavor

    Ooey Gooey Toffee Cake

    ooey gooey toffee cake
    Photo Credit: DisneyFoodBlog

    This cake is served at the Liberty Tree Tavern in Magic Kingdom.  If you’ve never visited Liberty Tree, it’s one of the best table service restaurants in Magic Kingdom in my opinion.  It’s also a great choice for picky eaters. They offer traditional foods like turkey, mashed potatoes, and stuffing. This cake is rich and delicious topped with ice cream.  It’s nice to have at home in cooler temperatures rather than in the Florida heat.

    Ooey Gooey Toffee Cake-AllEars.Net

    Wookie Cookie

    In case you have never had the pleasure of enjoying a Wookie Cookie in Hollywood Studios, they are like giant oatmeal cream pie cookies.  This recipe makes them a little smaller, which is perfect. 

    Wookie Cookie – polkadotsandpixiedust.com

    10 Best Disney Recipes

    Whichever recipe you choose to try, I guarantee you won’t be disappointed. I hope these help to bring a little bit of that Disney magic to your home.  Leave me a comment and let me know what is your favorite Disney treat to recreate at home?

  • 9 Easy Tips to Start Decluttering When you’re Overwhelmed

    Our home environment can have a huge impact on our emotional and mental wellbeing. If your space is in a constant state of chaos it can clutter your mind as well as your home. 

    If you are feeling some clutter anxiety, you’re not alone.  Life is busy, and at the end of the day decluttering can feel overwhelming.

    But it doesn’t need to be.  Here are some tips and tricks to start decluttering without feeling overwhelmed. 

    Go in with a plan

    Make a list of the areas you want to tackle. Know which areas need the most work, and break those areas into smaller more manageable tasks. 

    For example, if you want to declutter your kitchen there are many smaller tasks you can break that into. Some of these could include

    • Countertops 
    • Spices 
    • Pots and pans 
    • Pantry
    • Fridge
    • Freezer
    • Upper cabinets
    • Lower cabinets 
    • Under the sink

    Once you have a list of smaller tasks you can fit them one at a time into your schedule to avoid overwhelm.

    Get your supplies ready before you begin

    Make sure you have what you need before you start so you remove any barriers to making progress.

    Be sure to have some garbage bags and some boxes or bags for any items you want to sell or donate. 

    Begin with some easy wins

    If you’re anything like me you have some areas of clutter that bother your more than others? These can often be surface areas like countertops or highly visible areas of your home. 

    For me, those spots are the counter near my coffee pot and the dining room table. Both areas seem to be a catch-all for papers and nonsense. They are relatively small areas and can be decluttered in 10 minutes, and the benefits are huge. 

    Tackling one of those high-impact areas can really help you to see the rewards of decluttering and allow you to gain some momentum. 

    Set a timer

    To combat that overwhelming feeling that you have to do everything all at once, start with short bursts of time. You can even make it a game. Set a timer for 10-15 minutes and see how much you can get done in that time. 

    Build consistency

    Aim to do just a little decluttering each day, You’ll be surprised how much progress you can make in just 5 minutes per day. 

    Start with the easy decisions 

    decluttering

    If starting to declutter feels overwhelming, start with stuff you know can be thrown away.

    Don’t start with sentimental items. Those will be more difficult to make decisions about. Getting caught up in analysis may derail you before you make any real progress. 

    Make it fun 

    Try to make decluttering as much fun as possible. Some things you can do to add a little fun:

    • Listen to a podcast, audiobook, or a great playlist
    • Make the space you’re in smell nice by lighting your favorite scented candle.
    • If you’re in an area with a tv, put on one of your favorite movies or shows. Just be sure it’s something that will not demand your attention. Old favorites that you know by heart can be soothing background noise. It’s the perfect excuse to rewatch the Office. 

    Stop adding to the clutter

    Taking the time to declutter is not going to make a true impact in your life if you don’t take some action to keep it that way. 

    Take an honest look at your buying habits. What areas do you have more stuff than you need? What steps can you take to ensure that area doesn’t get out of control again?

    Before I had kids, one of my biggest areas of clutter was my closet.  It wasn’t that I was buying an outrageous amount of clothing.  It was that I was holding on to EVERYTHING.  

    Once I went through the effort of getting rid of what needed to go I wanted to be sure I didn’t end up in the same scenario again. I made a rule that for every new item of clothing I bring in one needs to go out. It helped so much in keeping things manageable.

    Set Goals and Rewards

    Determine a timeline and set goals for your decluttering.  Break your tasks into weekly or daily goals. For example- Decluttering all the kitchen cabinets this week. Or cleaning out the spice cupboard today. Write your goals down. You’ll be more likely to achieve them.

    It’s also helpful to reward yourself for your efforts. Other than the reward of a calm and decluttered home.  Try to avoid choosing rewards that contribute to more clutter. 

    Conclusion

    9 Easy Tips to Declutter

    When you make the decision to declutter just aim for progress, not perfection. You don’t have to do everything all at once. Even a little progress can be really impactful. 

    I hope you found these tips helpful. Let me know in the comments if you have any decluttering hacks that have helped you.